Modern Dating: Manifesting True Love in the Ghosting Era with Amber Moon Holistic

Modern Dating: Manifesting True Love in the Ghosting Era with Amber Moon Holistic

If your dating experience in Galway is proving unsuccessful, discover expert advice on manifesting true love from Amber Moon Holistic.

Words by Amber Moon Holistic, based in Co. Galway. Spiritual Mentor, Heart Healing Coach, Tarot Reader.

In a world of swipes, likes, and sliding into DMs, finding true love in the digital age may seem like searching for a needle in a haystack. Staying optimistic in a battlefield of breadcrumbing, ghosting, and situationships is next to impossible. But fear not, for in this modern dating landscape, the power of manifestation can guide you toward the love of your dreams.

As a Spiritual Mentor, Amber Moon Holistic focuses on releasing stagnant energy, forgiving past relationships, focusing on an attraction mindset, working on inner confidence, following your dreams, and knowing your self-worth when approaching dating. She reminds clients that self-love is the most important attribute when attracting a potential suitor, and to approach love with an open heart that is free from ties to past disappointments. She has some tips that she shares with clients of hers all the time, from a spiritual and energetic perspective. It could just enlighten your dating experience in both Galway and beyond.

Set Your Intention:

The journey to finding true love begins with setting a clear intention in your mind. Take a moment to reflect on what you truly desire in a partner and relationship. What are your values, aspirations, and non-negotiables? By setting a clear intention, you align your energy with the frequency of love and open yourself to receive the perfect match. Focus on what you want, not what you do not want. If you always declare “I attract players” then low and behold... You will continue to stay on the same unfulfilling dating merry-go-round. Get clear on the qualities that are important to you in a partner and relationship. Know your worth, and focus on becoming the best version of yourself.

Timing Is Everything:

Sometimes love is energetically blocked until you begin that business you have been dreaming about or embarking on that traveling experience abroad. According to Amber: “When I pull cards for people, I can literally see that they are about to meet the love of their life, but often I will see a lesson they need to learn first so that they are actually open to love before it arrives. When love comes to you, you want to be ready and open to receive it and not self-sabotage or think it is too good to be true.”

Stay Open to Serendipitous Connections:

While dating apps can be a great way to meet new people, true love can also manifest through serendipitous connections that may seem like chance encounters. In movies, that (seemingly) random bumping into a hot stranger in your local coffee shop in your home town is called a ‘meet cute’. Stay open and receptive to the possibility of meeting your soulmate in unexpected places. Get out of your pyjamas and say YES to social occasions and opportunities. There is plenty happening in Galway City this Summer, so no excuses!

Release Attachment to Outcomes:

In the journey of manifesting true love, it is important to let go of expectations and go with the flow. Let go of the person you’re obsessing over who has shown you zero interest. Release a specific date you have in mind that you must have found your true love by. Stop doom scrolling scenarios of you ending up forever alone in your mind, since this is projecting an unapproachable energy outward. If it is out of your control, then let it go and let it flow. Focus on enjoying your life, and moving forward until you end up in the right place, at the right time. Let go of any feelings of desperation or scarcity, and instead cultivate a sense of abundance and trust. Attract, do not chase love. Gripping on too tight to a date, time, person, or way of meeting can slow down your manifestation, and block your own blessings.

Trust Your Inner Guidance:

Throughout the dating process, trust your inner guidance to lead you toward the right path and the right partner. Pay attention to how you feel hanging out with potential partners—do they uplift and inspire you, or do they drain your energy and leave you feeling confused? Trust your intuition to guide you toward the right person. Butterflies in the stomach are often anxiety or your body saying a swift ‘Nope’, it’s up to you to listen to your inner guidance. Do not settle! Be grateful for the lessons, blessings, and detours since they are all leading you to the right person, at the perfect time. By setting clear intentions, staying open to serendipitous connections, investing in your own happiness, being aware of self-limiting beliefs, releasing old patterns, and trusting in the power of manifestation, you can attract the love of your dreams into your life. Your mindset is a powerful manifestor; what you think about, you bring about. Therefore, keep your focus on the outcome you want. Rather than stating ‘I always attract emotionally avoidant partners’, shift the mindset to ‘From now on, I only attract emotionally available partners.’ Simple changes can create magical transformations. It all begins with your focus. Adopt that manifestation mindset, awaken your heart, and watch miracles unfold. Stop saying ‘what if it doesn’t happen’. Focus on affirming to yourself that it will happen. Get clear in your mind that it is only a matter of time until it does, so you better actually get yourself ready rather than spending your time worrying.

For more information about the services that Amber Moon Holistic provides, please tap the link HERE. If you would like to arrange an appointment you can contact her via the link HERE

All photos courtesy of Amber Moon Holistic.

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